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Episode 29: Mediation for the Mediator Trauma Healing Learnings

Blin of an Eye Podcast Episode 29: Mediation for the Mediator Trauma Healing Learnings

Two steps forward, one step back was the best Billy and Louise could hope for as they were in the throws of mediation to give them strength to pick themselves up again and again after falling apart several times since Archer’s accident. In this trauma healing learnings episode, Louise drives home the importance of bringing in a neutral party to help navigate a crisis - even when it gets very messy, and loud.

 

You may find tips for yourself, and ones you can share with a friend or family member going through a traumatic situation, tips that can aid in recovery from the trauma. Such tips can also begin to relieve suffering and be the bridge of a partnership. 

If you haven’t listened already to the story behind this learning, please listen in on Episode 29: Mediation for the Mediator. 

Episode 28: Tell Him Everything Trauma Healing Learnings

Blink of an Eye Podcast Episode 28 Trauma Healing Learnings

Medical information should be complete, forthcoming and easy to digest. But when you have many people at many levels involved in the care of a loved one, they all interpret the truth differently. They may think it’s complete, but they can only share what they understand and what they feel they are permitted to share. Then we have the job to decide how much medical truth is to be shared with not only the patient, but others who are emotionally invested and whom the patient relies upon. Louise walks us through the questions to consider in various scenarios to help us have the conversation before it becomes necessary to have the conversation. And she takes a look at how such conversations might ease the later trauma integration journey. 

 

If you haven’t listened already to the story behind this learning, please listen in on Episode 28: Tell Him Everything

Episode 27: No Time for Tears Trauma Healing Learnings

Blink of an Eye Podcast Episode 27: No Time for Tears Trauma Healing Learnings

Trauma takes a long-term toll on the body, especially if all we do is store it away and simply say, “I held it together, I’m fine, it’s over.” If it were only that simple. What about tears? Is a good cry helpful or not? Trauma can settle into our bodies and cause us trouble years later. Holding it together may be commendable, but it’s only a Band-Aid. You deserve more than a temporary fix so you can get back to living life fully.  The good news is there are many guides available to help us through trauma. Come hear about ones that are available for you at your fingertips and about the miracles of the body to restore itself.  

 

If you haven’t listened already to the story behind this learning, please listen in on Episode 27: No Time for Tears

 

Episode 26: Little Angel Trauma Healing Learnings

Blink of an Eye Podcast Episode 26: Little Angel Trauma Healing Learnings

Trauma happens. Healing trauma is a process. We can get stuck in our trauma experiences, but some memories step in to give us respite during the journey without our even realizing it. Have you ever been in a stressful situation and your mind wanders to a peaceful memory that calms you? That’s no accident. Those epiphanies can renew us, give us strength to carry on. They give us hope when we need it most. It could be a song, a soothing voice you remember, a place that brought you joy, a moment, such as the first time you gazed at your new baby. What is it for you? Tune in as we learn together. We all have these respite resources if we are open.  Where do those little respite epiphanies come from that seem to come out of the blue? Join Louise to learn what happens when we open our eyes to resources that carry us on our trauma healing journeys.

If you haven’t listened already to the story behind this learning, please listen in on Episode 26: Little Angel

Episode 25: I Didn’t See This One Coming Trauma Healing Learnings

Blink of an Eye Episode 25: I Didn't See This One Coming Trauma Healing Learnings

Even the strongest marriages can crumble when faced with trauma. This doesn't mean that the distorted statistics of divorce are descending on your marriage, at least it doesn't have to. Join Louise as she walks you through some of what she’s learned as a transformative mediator, but mainly as a wife and mother walking through her own trauma. She’s hoping you’ll find some glimmers of hope here if you are currently faced with the damage of trauma, old and new, still bombarding your life right now. Learn about how old unresolved trauma shows up. There is hope.

If you haven’t listened already to the story behind this learning, please listen in on Episode 25: I Didn't See This One Coming   

Episode 24: The ABC Board Trauma Healing Learnings

Blink of an Eye Ep 24 Trauma Healing Lesson

The story of Archer’s ABC board reminds us of resources within our grasp for communication such as simple tools of a notebook and pen, notes app on a phone, and a message board that you can make quickly and inexpensively. In this learning you’ll also hear why writing updates may aid you and others to live wholly again after a traumatic event and the difference in story-telling and retraumatization. You may find tips for yourself, or that you can share with a friend or family member going through a traumatic situation, tips that can aid in recovery from the trauma. Such tips can also be a bridge to relieve suffering and be the bridge for partnership between medical staff and families for patient well-being. 

If you haven’t listened already to the story behind this lesson, please listen in on Episode 24: The ABC Board.   

Healing Trauma Guidebook: He Talked with God

Healing Trauma Guidebook - He Talked with God

Blink of an Eye is the story of a mom who receives the phone call that will change the rest of her — and her family’s — life. In this episode, you will hear a highlight from Louise's storytelling as these events dramatically, and rapidly unfolded in Episode 1: The Call, and a message for you to consider if faced with a traumatic event, as Louise shared in Episode 2: He talked with God. 

Louise invites you to listen to the full version of both Episode 1: The Call, and Episode 2: He Talked with God here.

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